But some people do seem to have something like a death wish in an even more important realm. In their spiritual walk. Let's check it out...
Romans 8 (NIV)
5 Those who live according to the flesh have their minds set on what the flesh desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires. 6 The mind governed by the flesh is death, but the mind governed by the Spirit is life and peace. 7 The mind governed by the flesh is hostile to God; it does not submit to God’s law, nor can it do so. 8 Those who are in the realm of the flesh cannot please God.
You are likely familiar with the fact that the Bible says our words have the power of life and death in them. But let's go further to the root of the problem. After all, our words come from our thoughts which are generated in our minds.
This scripture tells us that when our minds are set on what the flesh desires, that our minds literally are Death. Our thoughts literally are death. Nothing good can come from a mind like that and a mind that is set on what the flesh desires generates thoughts and words which destroy us and other people.
But a mind that is set on what the Spirit desires literally is Life and Peace. That means that a mind focused on what God desires can please God, can be "in the Spirit" and can generate thoughts, words and actions which accomplish life and peace for the one who has developed this kind of mind and focuses it on Kingdom desires.
This is why it is so important that we renew our minds (Romans 12:1-2) and develop the mind of Christ (1 Corinthians 2:16).
Sometimes people struggle when I encourage them in times of prayer or worship to "get into the Spirit." Usually it is because they are waiting for something to "happen to them" like the Holy Spirit coming and jumping on them or something. What they need to do to get into the Spirit is simply start to focus on the Spirit and on what the Spirit desires. The Bible encourages us to "find out what pleases God" (Ephesians 5:10). When we think to the Word and begin to repent and humble ourselves, it's amazing how quickly God's Holy Spirit will descend on us.
So if things are dying around you, it would be wise to ask yourself right now. Is it because your mind is death? If so, it's time to kill the flesh, to focus your mind on what the Spirit of God desires and therefore transform your mind to Life and Peace!